Secrets: Are they allowed?


So your best friend has been dating this guy for about a year now. They seem like the perfect couple (on social media) but deep down inside, you know the truth. One day, you are out a restaurant after work, and you witness your bestie “boo” hugged up with some random chick. You can not believe your eyes! He noticed you as well, so leaves the restaurant in a hurry. What are you going to do? Keep this secret to yourself? or tell your home girl? I mean its only right, right? I have been in similar situations myself. When I was in high school, I had a close friend who boyfriend used to be abusive and controlling, as well as  cheater. One day, at track practice, I witnessed him all up on this girl. So I told her what I saw, it didn’t go so

well. She flipped the script on me, told me that I was “jealous” of their relationship. Honestly, it was the worse experience EVER. Our friendship did not last. It was a shame because, in my mind, I thought I was doing the right thing. I mean if the shoe was on the other foot, I would want someone to give me a heads up, instead of being played, but everyone is different. If I could go back in time, I wouldn’t change what I did. I believe as a friend, secrets aren’t allowed.

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